Allowing yourself to be SEEN unapologetically, is your first nature.

It's time to return to it.

One question that people often ask me is: "why am I so afraid of being seen and sharing my gifts?"

The truth is you are NOT. Being seen is not what scares you.

"Being seen is your first nature, one you crave to return to."

What scares you are the fears you project around being seen. 

Odds are what you dread instead is:

• Exposing yourself to the potential of humiliation, loss and ridicule
• Having your truest self, your gifts, your craft and your light criticized
• Being attacked, persecuted or even cancelled because of your personal truth
• Potentially losing meaningful people in your life because they are not in resonance with your authenticity.

These are the things that stopped you in an old paradigm. This is what we are here to undo. Because your light, your wisdom and your craft are done being silent.

I know firsthand that these are some of the fears that crippled my expression...

I know the depth of frustration you feel when deep down you know you have so much to offer and yet you cannot bring yourself to unleash it consistently.

I know what it feels like to wrestle with self sabotage and impostor syndrome... to the point that you start questioning if your brightness is worth shinning at all, or if your authenticity is worth expressing.

I also know what it takes to change the story. To create the inner capacity so that you can become the spokesperson for your truth and mission in a more powerful way.

The journey SEEN is about is what has allowed me, to embrace more of my truth even during times of great divide, share my voice online for over 10 years now, reach millions with my writing, and transcend the fears that prevented me from writing my now published book with Hay House, Scars of Gold..

"There are few coaches in this world as skilled, wise and generous as Xavier. And I’ve worked with some great ones. As a professional singer-songwriter and coach for 40 years, the experience of being SEEN is profoundly far-reaching for me. In his 6-week SEEN deep dive, Xavier led us through the hard stuff, with grace and compassion, that felt like a sacred pilgrimage into my soul. I feel like I’m just scratching the surface of what has now been made possible. My focus has shifted, from awkwardness to humble willingness… to be more SEEN. Insecurities, flaws and all. Thank you, Xavier, for your loving contributions to my life and this world."
- Deb Chamberlin, Artist & Coach, New Jersey

Here is an unpopular reality check...

"There comes a time where repressing your authenticity, your voice and your gifts, becomes more heavy than repressing your deepest pain."

If you ask me, we are living in such times. And I've lived it.

I spent years depressed because I rejected what my heart deeply desired.

I spent years pursuing shadow careers and hollow relationships because self liberation felt more confronting than self betrayal.

For a long time, I believed I had to fix the saboteur, silence the impostor, and get rid of the parts of me that hesitated. That was the lie.

Self-sabotage, impostor syndrome, and resistance are not enemies.

They point directly to the places where liberation is waiting.

Nothing truly changed for me until I stopped trying to eliminate these parts and learned to work with them.

I want to take you through the blueprint!

This work is about the integrated liberation of your voice and expression.

What would be possible if you stopped resisting your voice?

Personally, I think the world is more than ready for the light bearers and true seekers to stop being silent. And if this is you, then SEEN is for you.

So picture what would happen if you embraced the shifts below...

What if the unconscious patterns that make you hide no longer ran your life, especially when your heart calls you forward?

What if you could stay open-hearted anchored regardless of how your truth is received?

What if the fears of humiliation, attack, or criticism stopped pulling you away from your voice and became things you could meet without collapsing?

What would become possible if your system could actually hold your gifts, your authenticity, and your light without apology or self-editing?

I’ll tell you what happens.

You don’t just express more. You become unleashed.

Not in a performative way but in a grounded, embodied one. 

This is what SEEN is about.

"I've invested lots of money, time, and energy into various programs to support me in my personal healing and business with various healers, mentors, and guides. SEEN was truly at the top and well worth the investment for the energetic shifts and unique insight that Xavier shares. The heart resonance and coherence that I felt the whole time was very nourishing. It affects how I approach harnessing my voice and it's truly a game changer. It was the right time for me and these teachings for sure and I'm excited to witness how I integrate and embody this further. Big things ahead and I know this is the work I'm meant to be leaning into right now."
- Kerry Ferber

Introducing SEEN

It's time to shift from repressed to EXPRESSED!

SEEN is a 6-week transformational bootcamp designed to help you dissolve the shadow material that cripples your voice and awaken your unapologetic and heart-centered self-expression.

Seen is honest and heart centered work. I loved how vivid the journey was. Xavier and his team built a VERY safe place for women and men alike and that was refreshing. The experience really touched my heart more than my mind. It was the boost I needed to allow myself to be seen, to open myself to a new relationship, to step out of my cocoon and bring my offerings to the world.

- Juanita Pacheco

This immersion has been specifically designed for...

Creatives, artists and writers who struggle with sharing their craft with the world

Practitioners, light workers and entrepreneurs who desire to unleash their message and mission

Creators that are already expressing themselves, but deep down know that there is another level of expression that they don't know quite yet how to achieve

Anyone who is ready to bring more of their heart-centered and authentic self expression to the world around them and their relationships. To speak the unspoken to a partner. To honor what they've buried with a parent.

Not everyone wants a stage and I get that. Seen is also for you if what matters to you most is the relational dimension of visibility. Being real in love, family or friendship.

Beyond everything, this immersion is designed for people who are no longer available to find safety in being invisible even when their soul is inviting them to take up space.

This journey goes beyond visibility, it's about liberation.

Authentic and heart centered expression is liberation at its finest. That's the highest purpose of the healing work you've been doing. That's what transmuting the shadow material within you is meant to serve.

Being seen will liberate you and it will also cost you who you were pretending to be. SEEN is the place where you are held through the aftershocks of expression.

In SEEN, we won’t just help you express your true nature. We’ll help you hold the tender aftermath. The contraction, the vulnerability, and the part of you that wonders, “Was I too much?” This is visibility work that includes the integration

I believe that the antidote to being invisible is not attention, it is self recognition. SEEN will support your capacity to do that... And you'll receive the potent healing experience of being mirrored by the right people.

SEEN is where your truth won’t echo into silence. It will be held, honored, and remembered by others on the same path

Undoing the ancestral chains. Some of us carry ancient vows of silence. We come from lineages where being seen wasn’t safe. And without knowing it, we inherited their caution.

SEEN creates space to honor those who couldn’t speak. And it gives you the tools to set yourself free, so that your authentic expression doesn’t come with shame or panic, but with reverence.

WHAT SEEN PARTICIPANTS HAVE TO SAY...

What you can expect from this 6-week journey...

SEEN is not an experience where you come to sit in the back and passively consume information.

SEEN is designed as a transformational bootcamp. It is designed for people who are ready to embody change and take action. The purpose of this offering is to compel you to show up in your life in new ways.

Your voice and your authentic self expression are the highway to your heart's deepest desires. And SEEN is the container where they awaken.

The truth is that you are wired to be seen. You are wired to exude your light. And when we clear what stands in the way, you return to that most natural state. That is the magic of the journey that you are about to dive into.

 The deliverables

• 6 Weekly live calls with Xavier. Each call will last between 2.5h and 3h. The call structure is as follows:
  • Live teaching
  • Q & A
  • Hot seat live coaching
  • Guided integration journey (These are journeys to the core of your psyche to release blocks that hinder your expression)
• 6 pre-recorded course modules with lifetime access.
• Weekly assignments to help you unleash your expression
• Intentional support community
• Lifetime access to the call recordings
• Exclusive 1:1 support from Xavier for those who choose the ultimate experience. (*To be used during SEEN or up to 1-month after the last call.)
• Tools and distinctions that will help you unleash your expression. These will serve you for a lifetime.

Xavier is incredibly insightful and has an amazing ability to hold space for a large group of people. I have learnt more in this course than any other course I have been on. Thank you Xavier for opening my eyes to my real fears and for showing me how to love all my shadow parts and how to embrace my light even more.

- Karen Scott Pringle, Emotional Intelligence Coach

Xavier is a heart-centered advocate for self-liberation in service of thecollective. He holds space in the real work with presence, intention, and even levity. Xavier is a truly one of the most skillful, humble, and beautifully responsible facilitators I’ve had the pleasure to work with. Simply a lovely human bringing forth unique conversation and invitations. His presence and light will awaken yours. Powerful and life changing.

- Jane O’Brien

Our transformational map...

& LIVE CALLS SCHEDULE

WEEK 1 : Reconciling with your voice

(LIVE CALL: WEDNESDAY FEB 4TH @ 3:30PM ET | 12:30PM PT)

• Uprooting self censorship and self abandonment
• Cleansing your self-expression from "shoulds"
• Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
• Guided integration journey & homework assignment

WEEK 2 : Inner alchemy - Dissolving the fears associated with being seen

(LIVE CALL: WEDNESDAY FEB 11TH @ 3:30PM ET | 12:30PM PT)

• Transcending the fears of persecution, loss and humiliation.
• Staying heart-centered and authentic in the face of criticism.
• Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
• Guided integration journey & homework assignment

WEEK 3 : Dethroning the archetypes that dim your light and mute your voice

(LIVE CALL: WEDNESDAY FEB 18TH @ 3:30PM ET | 12:30PM PT)

• From inner critic to inner cheerleader
• From saboteur to uplifter, and from impostor to inner wisdom
• Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
• Guided integration journey & homework assignment

WEEK 4 : Unlocking the archetypes of self liberation - Part 1 

(LIVE CALL: WEDNESDAY FEB 25TH @ 3:30PM ET | 12:30PM PT)

• Making peace with being misunderstood and seen as a fool
• Entering the arena: letting your voice be clumsy 
• Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
• Guided integration journey & homework assignment

WEEK 5 : Unlocking the archetypes of self liberation - Part 2

(LIVE CALL: WEDNESDAY MARCH 4TH @ 3:30PM ET | 12:30PM PT)

• Dissolving the myth of perfectionism
• Letting your heart run your voice
• Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
• Guided integration journey & homework assignment

WEEK 6 : Unleashing your heart-centered self expression. 

(LIVE CALL: WEDNESDAY MARCH 11TH @ 3:30PM ET | 12:30PM PT)

• Unleashing your voice in a polarized world
• Embodying your unique templates of self expression
• Aligning your voice with your values
• Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
• Guided integration journey & homework assignment

A few more pivotal distinctions you'll receive from this transformational map  

• Post-Expression Integration Rituals: Learn how to nourish your nervous system after expressing your truth, ensuring your voice becomes sustainable and rooted in self-trust.

• Creative Play and Joy: Experience the pleasure of self expression through playful and light-hearted practices that allow you to express your brilliance without or despite fear.

• Intimate Visibility Practices: Develop the courage to speak your truth in your personal relationships, fostering deeper connections and authentic interactions.

• Ancestral Healing: Explore and release inherited vows of silence, allowing you to step into your full expression without the weight of ancestral fears.

• Embodied Archetypes: Engage with sacred parts of yourself through embodied practices, helping you access and express different facets of your being.

"Seen was exactly what I needed. For too long I excused my hiding as a consequence of being bullied when I was younger or feeling misunderstood throughout my life. I allowed myself to feel like a victim every time I missed an opportunity to be visible. Even when I did show up boldly in my business or in my relationships, I would hide things that felt too divisive or something that might cause a rift. This watered down version of me was miserable. SEEN taught me why I defaulted to these behaviors without shaming me for doing so. Xavier and my fellow classmates encouraged me to reach out of my comfort zone. Since, I've been able to bravely share my truths to my partner as they arise & to more confidently embrace what sets me apart so that my ideal clients can find me and know immediately that they want to work together. I am so thankful for my Seen experience."
- SEEN cohort 3 participant.

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