THE ALCHEMY OF
SELF ABANDONMENT
RECLAIM THE SPIRITUAL STAMINA TO UNAPOLOGETICALLY HONOR YOUR SELF
A 3 hour live immersive workshop w/ Xavier Dagba
Here are some of the ways Self-abandonment can look like...
- Trying too hard to please others
- Running from your pain and difficult emotions
- Not communicating your needs clearly
- Running from the responsibilities you know you need to embrace
- Shutting down in order to keep the peace
- Not setting the boundaries you know you need to express
- Over-enduring and staying in unhealthy relational dynamics
- Censoring yourself and repressing your voice
- Repressing your heart centered desires
- Compromising on your values
- Not sharing your craft, your ideas and the creations you wish to bring to the world
- Disregarding your intuition
- Hiding your authenticity
- Repressing our joy
- The list goes on and on...
I think you get the point... The list is almost endless.
What these traits have in common is that at the core there is a rejection of self. A rejection of our wholeness.
The point of this inventory is not to cause you to feel shame or bad about yourself. The point is to get real.
Self abandonment is challenging to look at. That's why most people won't.
The point is to explore it with a radical degree of curiosity and compassion so that you may liberate your self and lead from your heart.
There comes a point where if safety still means rejecting your authenticity and your brightness... then it's not true safety. It's suffering.
It's time to bring forth the divine rebel within you
Choosing to no longer equate safety with abandoning yourself is an act of divine rebellion.
My assumption is that if you've been reading up until now, you are ready for that initiation.
Equating safety with self abandonment is one of the main reasons we get stuck.
This may have been needed at some point of your journey, but it won't serve your healing and expansion.
Abandoning yourself is not sustainable safety.
It traps you in a prison of self betrayal.
It keeps pain in your body, which perpetuates suffering and dysfunctional patterns.
It turns your body into a landmine of repressed pain.
It compromises on your values, which erodes self trust.
It disowns your needs, disregards your intuition and represses your gifts...
This keeps you in a state of perpetual disappointment.
True safety makes more room for your authenticity and your brightness.
True safety is the feeling that unfolds when you reconcile with yourself and reclaim self trust.
True safety unfolds when you rebuild trust with your inner knowingness.
True safety is when you are able to feel at peace within your own body.
True safety is when you feel empowered to let your heart call the shots in your life.
This is your personal invitation to enter this new paradigm.
I AM READY. LET ME IN!
Hi there, I am Xavier.
I am a Coach, Shadow integration facilitator, trauma-informed transformation guide and teacher. My work is all about embodied self liberation. I find deep fulfilment in assisting light workers and thought leaders dissolve the hidden forces that keep them from shining bright and unleashing their expression.
My work is psycho-spiritual and bridges Jungian psychology, somatic experiencing, spiritual wisdom and integrative coaching.
With this offering, I will share with you a blueprint to reconcile with yourself more fully. To illuminate your pain and romance your repressed power so that you may step out of the hypnosis of self abandonment.
This is about reclaiming authority and authorship of your life. If this resonates with you, you are at the right place.
Here is what we will explore...
- How to illuminate and dissolve the hidden forces that cause you to betray yourself and to repress your authenticity.
- How to withdraw your power from the prostitute archetype (or "self rejector") and coming back to self
- How to reclaim the spiritual stamina to make the difficult choices you know will free you.
- How to make peace with the responsibilities and consequences of living in your authenticity and embracing your brightness.
- I will share with you a blueprint to dissolve self abandonment that has supported hundreds of previous workshop participants.
- I will walk you through one of my signature integration processes that will assist you in coming back to your wholeness.
- We will have a live Q & A where I will answer all your questions
This is for you if...
At your core there is a renegade heart that yearns for more freedom.
You are no longer willing to let outdated paradigms of safety cause you to repress your authenticity and your brightness
You are ready to awaken your divine rebel and to make choices that honor your soul
You are ready to become the author and the authority in your life.
You are ready to be more unapologetically expressed. With a strong spine and an open heart.
You know there is much more richness within you that you want to share with the world, and you are no longer willing to abandon that.
COUNT ME IN!THE ALCHEMY OF SELF ABANDONMENT
RECLAIM THE SPIRITUAL STAMINA TO UNAPOLOGETICALLY HONOR YOURSELF
$55 USD
This ticket gives you lifetime access to the replay
What former attendees had to say...
"It's going to be hard to step back into my old self abandoning patterns after this experience."
"This workshop was 100% what I needed to stop abandoning my own light. Thank you!"
"I've repressed so many desires and needs because of my deep fear of disappointment. Not anymore."
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